Lessons from Poverty and Viruses
Published in Marietta (GA) Daily Journal, 3/29/20
Maybe
I should call it near-poverty. I’m not sure how poverty was defined from 1944,
the year I was born, to 1966, the year I left home. I only know that except for
food, everything was always in short supply.
My
father did his best, and he was at his best in the fields producing food. He
was a man of the soil, a student and a master of the soil. His gardens and
fields were kept clean which means neither a sprig of grass nor the most
obnoxious weed had half a chance of survival.
Having
plenty of good food must have kept my mind off the fact that nothing else was
plentiful, not even clothes and school supplies. There were only three distinct
times when my mind dwelt on this fact. The first time was when I was in the 5th
grade. I was 10 and was watching my mother shake pennies from the world’s
largest glass piggy bank. She was counting out the week’s school lunch money
for the youngest 4 of her 17 kids. The other 13 were either grown or making
their own money. Watching her struggle to get the pennies out made me feel
sorry for her.
On
Mondays at school when my name was called, I handed my little brown bag of a
hundred pennies to Mrs. Scott. She had to count them out. I knew she sensed my
embarrassment. Most of the other children brought dimes, quarters, or a dollar
bill. Mrs. Scott would comment on how bright the pennies were as she playfully
counted and stacked. After a few Mondays neither my mother’s plight nor Mrs.
Scott’s counting of pennies bothered me.
The
second time I gave any thought to or dwelt on our material need was in 10th
grade world history. When Mrs. Richardson assigned the chapter on the ancient
Romans I got excited because soon after World War II one of my much older
brothers married an Italian woman. Antonia became a beloved source of
information and stories about Italy. It stunned me to learn from both Antonia
and Mrs. Richardson that ancient Rome had running water and indoor bathrooms.
My first thought was: And we don’t?
The
last time I found myself pondering our lack I was 22. My mother had passed away
and our family consisted of myself, a younger brother, and our father. I had
graduated from college and the day had come to leave home for my first teaching
job. My final chore was to help my father haul water. We not only didn’t have
running water. We didn’t have water. For years we had hauled water from a
neighbor, the chairman of the county’s Board of Supervisors (commissioners) who
was a giver and always helped us fill the glass gallon jugs and the disinfected
lard cans. While filling the jugs, I thought of 10th grade world
history again. The ancient Romans, though only the elites, had running water
yet here in 1966 … we don’t?
Said
the poor Quaker to his new neighbor, “Tell me what thou need’st and I shall
tell thee what thou can do without.”
I’m
not glad my family had to do without, yet somehow I’m thankful I know
deprivation. Deprivation didn’t kill the spirit of my dear parents or any of my
joy-filled, laughter-prone brothers and sisters.
R.C.,
the oldest, would farm like our father but unlike him, would become a
landowner. Paul and Pete would serve nobly in the worst of World War II and
become career soldiers. Ida, Jewell, Authula, and Margurette were homemakers
and models of strength, character, and beauty. Minnie became a registered
nurse. Walter, Jr. would become a business man and later a pastor; Durward, a
mail carrier. Almedia, Ruby, and Janelle were secretaries of the first rank.
Carolyn, a homemaker, would travel the world with her U.S. Marine husband.
Tressie became a registered nurse. Carlton, “the baby,” would go into banking
and insurance. I would spend 52 years telling 17 to 19 year-olds to say
“centers on,” and not “centers around.”
Today
a virus has made many Americans nervous about imminent hardship. I pray and
wish for all of them a good roof, plenty of food and water (preferably
running), and enough money to pay for water, fuel, electricity, transportation,
and their rent or mortgage. I also hope that someone has bequeathed to them
just half the joy of life that my parents, brothers, and sisters bequeathed to
me.
Hardship
is not the end of the world. It can be a fertile field for the mind, a
sanctuary for the spirit, and a season of strengthening.
Roger Hines
3/25/20